Thunder growled deep
The sky went dark rather quick
Rained for a minute
©2017 Annette Rochelle Aben
I want you to know, that I am sincerely sorry for not treating you better. For not seeing you as worthy of honor and respect. For not being more supportive in those times when you needed me the most. I want to take this time to assure you that I will make demonstrating my responsibility to you, my top priority.
For all those times, I allowed you to accept the shame in the face of verbal, physical, mental, sexual and emotional abuse, I apologize. You NEVER caused people to behave this way, even though they told you it was all your fault. You didn’t “ask for it” and I am sorry I didn’t know how to protect you from the attacks or the resulting pain.
For all those times, I allowed you to own the guilt for requiring others to honor their contracts with you, I apologize. You held up your end of the agreements, providing the services for which you were contracted in good faith. You NEVER caused people to decide to ignore their financial obligations to you and I am sorry I didn’t know how to help you find your voice.
See, Annette, there is no reason for you to feel the shame for what happened to you when others sensed your vulnerability. They did what they did because of where they were in their lives, not because of anything you did to provoke their behaviors. And while they may never accept the responsibility for their actions, you can release the shame.
Annette, feeling guilty about not standing up for yourself will never solve anything. You were acting in the only manner you knew, at the time, and now you know better. You have a choice at this point, to continue to live with the feelings of guilt or to move forward with a new attitude.
From now on, I promise to help you realize your true worth. To remind you every day that your value is based solely on how YOU see yourself. I promise to love you just because you breathe.
I love you forever and ever!
Thank you for your attitude of gratitude!
Gratitude in thought only, is merely a thought. What gives a thought power, is the emotion to which it is attached. Think your thoughts of appreciation, then allow yourself to feel the connection. It should bring a smile to your heart.
Affirmation: I can feel the connection of gratitude in my heart!
I appreciate you. Love, Annette Rochelle